Tuesday, March 24, 2009

Update on my three sons.

While they have my son in the nursery for his pediatric checkup, I thought I would spend a few minutes blogging (even though I should be sleeping.)

First: I was truly relieved when they announced that Jackson was indeed a boy. My worst nightmare was that he would've been a girl.

Second: I love Brent. He is such a wonderful husband and father. He would never ever pass out over anything (except lack of oxygen, I suppose) especially anything like watching his wife get an epidural. I know that I can rely on him - I could never imagine Brent passing out. Or wimping out on anything (except maybe cleaning the bathroom.) He's like my personal security blanket or something (I am sure that Brent has always aspired to be a "blanket.") I don't know what I would do without him.

Third: It's crazy how this mothering thing kicks in. I didn't feel this way 24 hours ago! I miss my family and just want to be at home with them already. I even miss listening to the childrens music we play in the car!

Fourth: I was going to impress everyone with my immediate updates and changed background and header on this blog, but somehow it didn't happen. I think I got a little too ambitious. I guess I'll get around to it later. Maybe. This is my third child, after all. I expect big changes and a newfound inability to get anything done.

Fifth: I am completely in love with this new little guy in my life. I find it funny how I long for him to stay this tiny (well, not that tiny) little infant, who is so sweet and tender, and yet by the time he starts crawling around and falling down stairs, I will long for the day when he is five and can communicate effectively, and be fairly independent.

Now I'd like to talk about the other two loves in my life. Blake and Maxwell. My dad brought them up to the hospital yesterday afternoon, and they got to finally meet their new brother. Maxwell ran into the room, jumped up on the bed and wanted to hold him immediately! Blake sauntered in most casually, took a look and sat down. Maxwell sat next to me and held the baby, giving him kisses, touching his face and pointing out his rather obvious facial features. It was very cute.



He spent the rest of the time being very possessive. Whenever anyone else was holding Baby Jack, Maxwell insisted on holding him as well. Here he is honing in on our good friend Spencer:



It was very sweet of Maxwell. I have called Maxwell my baby for the past three years, and I am hoping he won't mind that he is no longer the baby. Blake hung out (they got to eat cookies and ice cream) and talked about his legos, and his Uncle Morgan (and his legos) and he got pretty bored. It took him awhile to warm up to Jackson, but he eventually, in his own quiet way, would stroke his cheek and adjust his little cap and pat his little chest. It was very cute. And sweet.


Well, all this talk of my family is making me miss them terribly, so I think I will finish with that!

Monday, March 23, 2009

He's here!

Jackson Charles Barnes was born at 1:01pm this afternoon. He weighs 8 lbs. 3 oz. and was 19.5 inches long. He is a cutie, and he reminds us of Maxwell! I will post pictures later!

Wednesday, March 18, 2009

Spent.

So I just picked up a book from the Library - Spent: End Exhaustion and Feel Great Again by Frank Lipman. It supposedly has the "cure" for my exhaustion. Funny thing is, I think I might be too spent to actually start reading it!

So I opened up the book, and the first chapter asks "Are you spent?"

This author must be a genius. I mean, seriously, I am NOT spent, I just have so much free time that I decided to read a 300+ page book so that I could be hip, up-to-date and know what others are talking about at dinner parties.

Then I have to wonder how much babble is in the book - I hate it when authors like to "hear themselves talk" so much that they ramble on and on about things I don't care or need to know about. Or they are so smart that they have to "show off" their supreme wit and authority on a subject, and neither one actually helps to make the point or bring about any "self-help." The only self-help going on here is them helping themselves to my money.

For those of you who don't watch the Colbert Report - he interviewed an author who wrote a book on giving money to poor people. Steven so kindly pointed out that the book cost $22, which people should be sending to charities, not to some author who will get rich off the stinking book. My thoughts exactly. (BTW - the author got this kinda uncomfortable look and half-laughed.)

So, anyway. Now that I have spent five minutes criticizing a book I haven't read yet, I think I will go make dinner.

And I will read the book (if I ever find the strength and energy to do so) and let you know what I really think.

Tuesday, March 17, 2009

Everybody say "CHEESE!"

So I finally got them off! And I don't know quite what to think - Except, YAY ME!
Make all the boy moose go MWAHHHH!





P.S. Thank you, Dr. Klein and staff!

Sunday, March 15, 2009

The nursery is.....done.

Brent and I finished setting up the nursery. And I didn't have a panic attack, nor did I cry. Maybe we will make it through a third child. This picture isn't very good, but it's the best I can do.

Saturday, March 14, 2009

Hairy situations....

Brent was getting ready to leave for his haircut and, just out of sheer curiosity, I asked him if Wondra ever washes his hair. He said no, but she does ask. I informed him that the fee she charges covers a "Shampoo, Cut, simple Blow-dry style". She only charges me $5 for a bang trim, I pointed out. Blake heard all this and asked where Daddy was going. When I told him he was going to get his hair cut, Blake wanted to go so he pointed to his own head and earnestly asked, "Is my hair sticking up?" I laughed and said no (it was actually sticking up - it always is - it's when it no longer sticks up that it means its gotten too long, lol.) We let him go with Brent anyway. I just thought it was the cutest thing.

Friday, March 13, 2009

Thoughts (doesn't that sound so profound, lol?)

So my mind is a mess with all the changes about to happen:

Blake has a new carseat and will be relocating to the back seat. It is difficult for me, as the driver, to hear anyone in the backseat, so I am not looking forward to this. Also, how will I ever be able to hand him things all the way back there?

Which side should I put Maxwell's carseat on? It's nice to be able to pop the infant carseat into the base when it's behind the driver's seat, but then (how lazy am I) I will have to walk all the way around the other side of the car to buckle Maxwell in. Hmmmm.

How on earth is the new baby every going to be able to sleep? The boys are so loud.

I was reminded the other day about my relief of having all boys when I had to pull a piece of hair that had gotten stuck in between a girls' teeth (she had been chewing on her hair.) I can't figure out how to make that a proper sentence?

I am glad we are having this baby now, before they try to make any changes to Brent's healthcare plan.

I hate pregnancy. It sucks. It really does. And I stick by my opinion that anyone who claims to love it is clinically insane or lying.

I am soooooooo excited to get my braces off.....4 days and counting! YAY!

Why is it that I am so ready to get this baby out, but as soon as I have him, I will wonder what the heck I was so willing to get him out for. Put him back in, please!

I should really get off the computer. I have a bajillion things to do. How do you spell bajillion, anyway?

My Boys

My Boys
I can't believe I got them standing together....and smiling!

Jack

Jack
We think he is soooo cute!